Purple Ribbon Awareness Auction

On October 29th, beginning at 7:30pm EST, I'll be hosting an Awareness Auction for Domestic Violence Awareness Month. It's being called the Purple Ribbon Awareness Auction and I've gotten some really great items from wonderful sponsors, that will be auctioned off for donations to be put toward helping victims of domestic violence. The Auction will be begin on October 29 and will continue on for 24-48 hours. The length depends on the turn out. Some of the items being auctioned off will be Jewelry, New Kids Toys, Hand-Made Purple Ribbon Art, Woman's Trench-Coat, plus more! All money raised during the auction will be donated to help Domestic Violence Services in Buncombe County, NC. Helpmate is a domestic violence help center and shelter located in Asheville NC and has been helping the victims of Buncombe County for over 30 years. They have sheltered and assisted many women and children who were being abused by a loved one. Helpmate is my chosen non-profit to help out this year. I personally know how hard it can be to get out of a troubling situation of that sort and that's the exact reason why I'm holding this auction - To do my part in helping to Stop Domestic Violence and Spread the much needed Awareness!

To get a sneak peak of what's to come during the Purple Ribbon Awareness Auction, I hope you will attend the Purple Ribbon Awareness Twitter Party on October 23 at 8pm EST. During the party, participants will get the chance to win a few small prizes to help stir up excitement for the auction. There will be trivia questions and possibly even a small scavenger hunt. I'll also be sharing tips and information about Domestic Violence as well as how and where you can find help if you ever happen to find yourself or a loved one in trouble. As mentioned, I myself am a Domestic Violence Survivor and know how the smallest amount abuse can cause lasting effects which has the ability change you, as a person, as well as the way you view life. During the Twitter Party I'll share a few details of my story and give some insights of what to expect during the Awareness Auction on 10/29. By attending the Party and Auction, you will not only be helping out and supporting a great cause but you can also do some early Holiday shopping as well! They'll be items for children as well as adults and Don't forget that ALL PROCEEDS GO TO HELPING TO STOP DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, Every dime :)

Strength comes in numbers and I am only 1!

If we all come together, learn our options, get to know ourselves and each other while standing strong together as ONE... We can spark a change! I'm not just talking about women and children being the victims... Men can be used and abused just as easily as women can, it just don't happen as often so it's less talked about.

Domestic Abuse is similar to being a huge purple elephant in the middle of a crowed room while no one is brave enough to ask questions! This year - these purple elephants are going to be heard!

Among the prizes available are: One-of-a-kind Hand-Made Awareness Art, A Children's Book, DVDs and more. 
keep up with all of the activities during the Twitter party, Follow the username @AutoFaerie and the hastag #PurpleRibbonAwareness

Treat others as you would like to be treated yourself!

#BloggingForAwareness

Growing up in a home cursed with Domestic Violence is one of the worse situations that a child can be in. You try and teach your kids right from wrong, such as: "Never ever hit a girl.", "Don't be a bully." and/or "Stand up for yourself and what you believe in."

I've been around my fair share of Domestic Violence and Abuse throughout my 26 years and have heard many women say that they dealt with the abuse and stayed with their abusers for the sake of the children... "They need their father." they say OR "I don't want my kids to grow up in a broken home." There are many reasons to explain why victims don't leave their abusers and I understand and have witnessed most of them myself but watching and/or hearing your parents fight all the time is damaging! How can kids learn to not hurt others or stand up for themselves when you aren't doing the same?

Remember - Kids learn from what they see and from experience...

In other words:

"If a father beats his wife in front of his son,

What's to say when that boy starts to beat his wife and kids when he grows up?"

It sure does give you something to think about, Don't it?

Did You Know? - Domestic Violence Addition

Learn the Sad Truth about Domestic Violence and Abuse!

Did You Know...

• Most domestic violence incidents are never reported.
• Women are more likely to be killed by their intimate partner than men.
• 1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men are victims of Domestic Violence
• Every 15 seconds, a woman is being beaten in the US. - Dept. of Justice
• Women between the ages 20-24 have the greatest risk of nonfatal Domestic Violence, involving their intimate partner.
• Domestic Violence affects all people, no matter your income - But... people with lower annual income are at a 3x higher risk for Domestic Violence than others who have a higher annual income.
• 3 out of 4 Americans either know someone personally who is or has been a victim of domestic violence or are victims themselves! (That's almost 75% of Americans!)
• On estimate, more than 3 women and 1 man are murdered by their intimate partners in the US every day.
• Women are victims of over 4 million physical assaults and rapes, because of their intimate partners.
• Men experience almost 3 million physical assaults from their partners.
• 1 out of 3 women who have been abused, have never told anyone.
• 64% of women who experience violence, have mentioned that their children have witnessed violence as well.
• More than 60% of Domestic Violence situations happen at home.
• Without help, Girls who are victims of Domestic Violence are more vulnerable to abuse as teens and adults.
• Without help, Boys who witness Domestic Violence are at a higher risk of becoming abusers of their own partners and/or children as adults, which continues the Cycle of Violence throughout the next generation.

I'm a Survivor and You can be too!

Content Sources:

dvrc-or.org

www.safehorizon.org

Photo Source:

www.peasexpeace.org

Buy a Candle - Save a Life

SoyL Scents

Stop Domestic Violence

Some of you may know that I sale candles from SoyL Scents. Since October is not only Domestic Violence Awareness Month, it's also the month of the Fall Season and Halloween. SoyL Scents have introduced a Limited Edition Candy Corn Scent Candle for Halloween as well as a Jack-O-Lantern Melter that are both selling like hot cakes. We also have a Santa Clause Melter for the ones who like to start early on the Winter shopping. In honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, I've decided to donate my October profits from my earnings with SoyL Scents to help with local Domestic Violence Services in Buncombe County, North Carolina.

Never heard of SoyL Scents before? Expect to be amazed!!

We sale many different kinds of Soy Candles than are all made in the USA! Our most popular candles are the Candle Gems where you are sure to find a Ring inside each jar that can be worth $10, $50, $100, $500 or even $1000!! We also have the Elemental Collection that have wooden wicks and are named and made with the elements in mind. SoyL Scents also have a Country Collection and a Tulip Collection that are both wonderful. You can also find many Soy Tarts and the Melter Gems come with a ring in ever package like with the Candle Gems. If you find yourself looking for natural soap then you will love the Soy Soap collection that we offer at SoyL Scents as well as the spa items and room spray. There is also a large selection of full size Melters as well as plug-in Melters that are sure to add warmness to any home. They also make wonderful gifts for Holidays, Birthdays, for Teachers, saying Thank you and so much more!

You can view all of our available items at: http://mysoylscents.com/ID/scentiousfaerie/

We sale much more than regular ol' candles at SoyL Scents! 

You must use/visit the link above for the proceeds to be donated to Domestic Violence Awareness. You can also contact me by leaving a message at (828) 301-2358. If you decide to leave a message, make sure to leave: -- Your Name, Contact Number and Reason for your call, in your message so I know to return the call as soon as possible. You can also reach me via email at AutoFaerie@gmail.com

The Shade of Purple - Domestic Violence Awareness Poem

The Shade of Purple

Early morning dew resting on a Morning Glory,

They make the prettiest shade of purple.

Freshly picked blackberries being eaten off the vine,

Leaving stains in a yummy shade of purple.

A night out with the girls in your bran’ new dress,

Purchased in such a stylish shade of purple.

Bruises appearing after a tough night at home,

Forming shapes in a shameful shade of purple.

A brightly colored ribbon made for awareness

Spreading the word in the perfect shade of purple.

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month,
Proudly wearing a Ribbon in a bold shade of purple!

Written By

Autumn B.

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